You say that this isn't about you, and I see what you're saying, but you have to know how wonderful and special you are that you're willing to drop everything in your life to go take care of her. Someone who could so willingly be forgotten, and you're just-- there.

It must have been SO HARD being the one to take all that responsibility and burden onto your shoulders. You did the right thing. I can just feel it from this. I'm so sorry you've had to experience this kind of pain. =(