Goal

Aug. 7th, 2010 11:35 pm
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When I have paid off all my credit card debt, and have made arrangement for things like retirement and health care... I'm going to use a credit card every year to take an amazing vacation and then spend the other 11 months paying it off.

I know a guy who does this and he has the most amazing life ever.

Winning

Aug. 7th, 2010 10:01 pm
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I bit the bullet and signed up for Weight Watchers again. I feel like P is right - this is the time to get our lives back under control. I don't want to be the woman in the cartoon anymore. I want everything to make sense and be easy and feel like I'm doing good things with my life. I feel like I can manage this and Weight Watchers worked for me.

Talking frankly about weight )

I went running today again. It was awesome. Exercise )

During the Hall of Fame Luncheon, the speakers all talked about Winners. I'm tired of not being a Winner by their definition. "Winners make commitments; Losers make excuses."

"A winner doesn't blame others for his failures, or credit luck for his successes."

Thinky )
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Sorry about my freak out yesterday. No one should have to see that. *lol*

I spent the rest of my afternoon in a bit of a daze, then went home and watched the rest of S2 of My Name is Earl. (I cried. WTF, a comedy isn't supposed to make me cry!) Then, I met a friend at Twains and had a drink. I got home again at 11:30, chatted with Dave for a bit, then fell asleep.

Apparently, I turned my alarm off, because I didn't actually make it out of bed until 9:45, which sucked, because I needed to be at the office by 10. Somehow, I made it here by 10:10, got everything done that was supposed to be done by 11. I left my iPod charger at home, though, and forgot half my meds. Thankfully, someone has a charger that I've appropriated for a bit and I'm going home at lunch to oversee more moving stuff.

I really want to thank everybody for their kind words yesterday. It means a lot to me that you all think that I can get through this. Sometimes, when I'm pretty sure I can't, I remember that all of the smartest people I know disagree with me. It helps. So, GIANT HUGS to you all.

I've done 3 interviews this morning and have a forth lined up for this afternoon. I'm going to write and track down wayward attorneys who owe me things all afternoon. With any luck, I can get caught up to myself before the long weekend.
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It's already Monday. Boo.

I shall go to sleep momentarily, but I'm still kind of geared up, so I thought I'd write a post.

Like everyone else on the internets, I think this post is my life. Especially the look of pure manic glee on the little woman's face. But no, seriously, this is me. I could have written this. Every single word.

Word.

Secondly, I did my W2D3 run of C25K today. It was awesome! After I finished the last interval, I just kept running and proved to myself that I can, indeed, run 3 minutes. So watch out W3D1 run! I'm coming for you.

Thoughts on Running )

I went to a friend's house tonight for dinner (after I ran). I took with me a pack of hot dogs, hot dog buns, 4 ears of corn, and half a watermelon. (All stuff I'd planned to eat this past week and didn't.) Upon arrival, I sat down and did nothing while other people grilled for me. I feel that this is an excellent way to have a BBQ.

We ate dinner outside, where by 9, it had cooled down to 90*. It felt fantastic (especially after running in 95* heat.) Fireflies danced in the yard to the song made by cicadas and crickets. Honeysuckle bloomed on the back fence and for a single moment in time everything was utterly perfect. My soul felt at peace and I could hear it sigh in contentment.

I don't know what will happen in the next few months, but I do know that as long as the world has moments like that one, I still believe in my heart that everything is going to be okay.
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So, my life being what it is, I'm sitting on the sofa in S's office and there is a 9 year old boy crammed between the sofa and the desk watching National Treasure (although he's now watching Karate Kid because I forgot to hit post!). No part of him is visible, but I can hear the tiniest bit of movie soundtrack. I'm maybe 1.5 feet away from him.

It's summer vacation here and R's son is at work with her. He's decided - as you do, I guess - that the best place to be at work is invisible. Smart kid! And from his vantage point, he gets to watch tv!

I want to be a kid again!
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Today's theme for 3w4dw seems to be books and reading. Also, since [community profile] littleknownbooks is hosting an event awarding DW points for posts on, well, little known books, I thought I'd share five of my favorite children's books.

Some of these I've reread recently, but most I haven't. I was surprised to realize how old all of them were in relation to how old I am (they're a lot older!), so I want to be sure that I leave a caveat that - while I don't remember race!fail or any other fail in the books, I would be surprised if there wasn't some in there somewhere.

Regardless, I read these books until the pages fell apart as child and I loved them. I still think of all of them fondly to this day.

Five of My Most Reread Children's Books )
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My plan to make daily posts using the 3w4DW topics went horibly awry last week. But I'm back on the wagon again now. :)

Today's theme appears to be crafts.

Crafts and I have a strained relationship, much like a relationship with a new potential friend. I freely accept that the problem probably lies with me. Or should I say problems. I consider myself to be a connoisseur of the crats aisle. In no particular order, I've bought goods for scrap booking, knitting, woodwork, candle making, drawing, mosaic making, sculpture, writing, pumpkin carving, crocheting, painting, photography, framing, cake baking, candy making, and probably just about anything else out there.

I love the idea of creating something with my hands. I sometimes have secret fantasies where I'm a baker and I knead bread, or where I sell paintings that I make along canals in wonderful and mysterious cities.

Then I run into the real world and realize something - I have pretty much ZERO artistic skill. ZERO. ZILCH. NADA. ZIP. NOTHING. FOR REALS. GOAWAYNOW.

Somehow, what I see in my head never-ever appears in reality.

Folks, I'm even stick-man art challenged.

So, I have a closet in the hallway filled with the bones and ghosts of past ideas. Every once in a while, I'll open it up and stare inside longingly at all the things I just can't do. (No, really. I can't do them. I took a knitting class once and the teacher finally moved me to sit by her and she still couldn't figure out what i was doing wrong.)

It hurts a little, deep inside, where I realize that I truly am stuck with very few artistic outlets, none of which are really "crafts." (Writing is the one exception. Is it a craft? I don't know. It's often called such, but it seems different in that the only thing I create with my hands are typewritten words.)

I've learned to live with it, though. I figure eventually I'll find something that I'm good at and that doesn't make me want to scream. I hear that beading is a lot of fun. I also might take up edible fruit arrangements. (No, I'm not lying. The stuff for both of these is so neat! *wants stuff*)

For now, though, I will simply focus my energy on other things. Both the world at large and my wallet will thank me.
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I... really don't have anything at all to say about Computer Programming. I know nothing about it. At all.

Instead, I would like to make a tribute of things that computers have made possible for me.

1. The people: I've made some incredible friends. I know people from all continents now. I've met people who share my interests, from the mundane to the bizarre, and there is a real sense of community to be had.

2. The games: I confess it. I've discovered RPGs. And through the RPGs, I've had the chance to both meet incredible people and just have a great deal of fun. I've been playing in one game since 2002 with the same people. It has given me so many hours of fun that I suspect I've passed into months of it. (Also, the other players have become incredible friends.)

3. The fanfic: Fanfic ate my brain well before I started writing it myself. But then I started writing it myself and I've never looked back. And I've met friends who share my fandoms and encourage my writing. I've undeniably become a better writer thanks to it.

4. The knowledge: I joke all the time that Google knows everything, but you know what? Google knows everything. I honestly do not know how I used to cope without being able to look everything up online. Google knows my bank account balances and directions to anywhere and what time the movies start.

5. The work: Since becoming a freelance writer, I use the computer to do everything from research my topics to writing the actual articles to emailing them to editors. It allows me to work from home, on my sofa, in my PJs. It allows me the chance to do something I actually want to do and to even, perhaps, be good at it!

6. The social awareness: I've become a better person because of the awareness of issues that I have acquired online. I now look at movies, books, tv and politics in a very different way than I used to. I'm more critical and more discerning and generally just more aware than I used to be. This is a very good thing.

7. The recs: I love recs. I make a ton of them when it comes to fic. I make them when it comes to links to interesting articles. I definitely make them when it comes to music. And other people make them and that makes me so damn happy! I love finding new things - from comics to music to fanfic.

8. The squee!: There are days when seeing other people's happy reactions to things can forcibly drag me from a despairing funk into a good mood. I love watching people celebrate things ranging from political elections to the completion of projects to the latest episode of whatever TV show they want. Plus, there are picspams. And I love a picspam. Someone should make one of Timothy Olyphant soon!

9. The history: I've been blogging for 7 years. That's a lot of my life that is there for me to flip through whenever I want. It's interesting to me to see how I've changed and grown in the past 7 years. When I started my LJ, I was nearing the end of law school. It's been with me through 2 jobs, being laid off, starting my own firm. It's been there with me through a variety of personal relationships and a great deal of navel gazing. I like knowing that I can look back and see where I've been, because it gives me hope for where I'm going.

10. The unknown: One of my favorite things about computers is that I don't know where they'll be in ten years. A really good friend of mine, who IS a computer programmer, and I discussed this over dinner last week for about 3 hours (much to his wife's and our other friend's likely disgust). We disagreed, but with amusement, about what computers would do for us in the next 10 years. I propose that we will see the next Big Deal emerge from communities exactly like DreamWidth. It's a way for all of us to share our knowledge and our hopes and - in my opinion - we will see change come from that, both socially and scientifically.
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Today, I got up and made a To Do List. Between the cleaning ladies, although now it's one lady and one man (who is awesome!), and the fact that I've got one other person helping me out with a bunch of stuff today, I feel like I should end the day with a tremendous amount accomplished.

And I wrote that last paragraph about an hour ago and things have exploded nicely.

CONTINUE!

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I was absolutely miserable yesterday. I switched to taking my allergy pill at night (over the counter) and while I slept like a baby, I did not feel good all day. So today, I took a pill in the morning as well. We'll see how this does, but so far, no problems.

Yesterday I felt absolutely sick at night thanks to all the drainage issues and whatnot. Blah. Also, I think I ate too much. Double Blah.

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I got home late last night and D and Bob were parked at the end of the driveway. I had to park in the street. This annoyed me.

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Another hour gone and I'm taking names, peeps! The ass kicking will start this afternoon. :D
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Sometimes, I would like to be that person that finds a plastic bag floating in the air in front of a brick wall so beautiful that it takes my breath away. I can't help but think that the person who finds beauty in that scenario must be enlightened.

I will never be that person. )

This entry was written in response to the [livejournal.com profile] therealljidol Topic 04: Moments of Devastating Beauty. There will (probably) be voting for this week's entries. I will make sure to link to the poll once it is put up and I would appreciate it if you would vote for me if you enjoy my entry. As always, feedback is welcome and appreciated.
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Warning: This is not dial up friendly. Also, for readers who are visually impaired, I apologize and hope that my captioned explanations will suffice to help explain what I was attempting to do here.

As a young child, I liked to draw pictures. My mom would put them on the refrigerator, as mothers do. It's really too bad that I was always a terrible artist.

Evidence to the same behind the cut. Brace yourselves! )


This entry was written in response to the [livejournal.com profile] therealljidol Challenge 16: Coloring Outside the Lines. There will (probably) be voting for this week's entries. I will make sure to link to the poll once it is put up and I would appreciate it if you would vote for me if you enjoy my entry. As always, feedback is welcome and appreciated.

I am aware that I have completely cracked. But, whatever the result, I had fun with this entry. And that counts for a lot in my world at the moment.
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Nothing makes us so lonely as our secrets.

~ Paul Tournier



Or Maybe, It's Really Just Me. )


This entry was written in response to the [livejournal.com profile] therealljidol Challenge 10: You're So Vain, You Probably Think This Topic Is About You. There will be voting for this week's entries. I will make sure to link to the poll once it is put up and I would appreciate it if you would vote for me if you enjoy my entry. As always, feedback is welcome and appreciated.

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